Maybe I wanted proof.
Maybe I wanted to punish myself with it.
A nurse who remembered him met me in the lobby.
She was kind in the practiced way of people who work around grief every day.
She told me he was difficult at first, proud and private, furious with needing help.
She also told me he kept one photograph on the table beside his bed.
Mine.
“He still called you his wife,” she said quietly.
“Even after the papers.
Especially
when he got tired.”
That should have comforted me, but it landed in me crooked.
Love does not always heal when it arrives too late.
Sometimes it only proves how much damage silence can do.
I visited his grave the following Sunday.
The cemetery was windier than I expected.
I stood there with the old bank card in my coat pocket and the letter folded in my handbag.
I had imagined that if I ever found myself at his grave, I would have something clean and dramatic to say.
