Within a month of the wedding, she had redecorated the house from top to bottom. She replaced my father’s longtime financial adviser with someone she knew personally. She reorganized their joint accounts so her name appeared first on every statement.
My father mentioned the changes during one of our phone calls. His voice carried the sheepish tone of someone confessing to an unnecessary purchase.
“Vanessa just likes things organized,” he said. “You know how some people can be about running a household.”
I did not correct him.
I had learned during my military career that some conflicts were not worth engaging until they arrived at your own door.
What I did not understand at the time was that Vanessa had already begun searching for mine.
She started quietly, the way careful people usually did.
She asked one question at a luncheon and another at a neighborhood gathering, always presenting her interest as harmless curiosity.