The reporter asked whether I wanted to comment on a family dispute involving a prominent local Army officer and a multimillion-dollar inheritance.
I declined.
I had no interest in trying the matter through headlines or public opinion.
At work, the whispers were harder to avoid.
The Army was its own small town in many ways. Information moved through units as quickly as it moved through any close community.
I noticed people looking at me in the mess hall and the corridors. Some colleagues did not know what to say, so they said nothing.
Others offered the kind of careful advice people gave when they assumed someone was in over her head.
“Maybe you should settle,” one friend suggested over coffee. “Give her a manageable amount and make the whole thing disappear.”
I understood the impulse.
Settlements were quiet. They avoided depositions, discovery requests, hearings, and the exhausting process of proving that an accusation had no foundation.