Within a year of the hearing, I established three charitable funds.
The first provided scholarships for children of active-duty service members.
During my years in uniform, I had met too many military families who quietly struggled with tuition costs while pretending everything was manageable.
Parents transferred from one state to another. Children changed schools repeatedly. Spouses placed careers on hold while service members deployed or relocated.
The scholarship fund could not remove every difficulty, but it could give those children a more stable path into adulthood.
The second fund supported surviving military spouses.
I had seen how quickly paperwork, financial uncertainty, and loneliness arrived after a loss. Official assistance existed, but even the best systems could feel cold and overwhelming to someone trying to grieve while answering forms, calls, and legal questions.
The fund provided temporary financial assistance, counseling referrals, transportation, and patient guidance through administrative processes.
It was the kind of support I wished had existed more broadly for people like my mother during the hardest seasons of our family’s life.