My son, Cooper, was the best thing that had ever happened to me, hands down. With his gap-toothed grin and his unfiltered enthusiasm for dinosaurs and the Carolina Panthers, he was the light of my life. His laugh — the one that belonged only to him, the one that came out in bursts of pure joy — was the soundtrack of my day. Every time I heard it, it did something to me that I could never quite explain. It reminded me that despite everything that had happened, I still had something real. Something worth fighting for.
Then, there was Diane. My ex-wife. I would love to tell you that the divorce was filled with dramatic confrontations and betrayals, but it wasn’t. It was quieter than that. There were no affairs or wild accusations — just two people who grew in different directions. Two people who had, over time, become more like roommates than spouses. We had done our best to co-parent Cooper, and despite the awkwardness that sometimes came with it, we had managed to keep things civil. I had told myself, repeatedly, that it was the right thing. The mature thing.
