A week later I took her to a salon downtown. The stylist didn’t say “let’s fix it”. He said something much better:
“Let’s make it yours.”
He gave it a short, modern, beautiful cut. Sofía looked in the mirror, touched her tips and smiled for the first time in days.
“I look amazing.”
And if. It looked amazing.
Since then he has not seen my parents or Marisol again. Neither to Valeria nor to Mateo. Sometimes people tell me that I’m tough, that I should teach forgiveness, that family is family.
But I already learned that family is not permission to hurt.
Family doesn’t hold you down while you cry. It doesn’t humiliate you to make someone else feel better. It doesn’t call your pain drama.
Today Sofía walks with her head held high. His hair is growing, but most importantly his voice is too.