My name is Sara Choi-Bennett. I am her daughter, and I had been married to Gabriel Bennett for nine years when Mom was diagnosed with stage-three breast cancer.
There was another reason her question about Gabriel bothered me. My full name is Sara Choi-Bennett. When Gabriel and I married, he wanted me to become simply Sara Bennett. I kept Choi because it was part of me, part of my father, my mother, and the family history that existed long before my marriage. Gabriel called the hyphen unnecessarily complicated.
We compromised, or at least I thought we did. Looking back, that early disagreement should have taught me something. He was comfortable with compromise when the final shape still felt mostly like his preference. I had spent years calling that personality instead of recognizing it as a pattern.
Her oncologist, Dr. Reyes, was direct. The treatment plan was encouraging, but chemotherapy would be aggressive. Mom would need help.
