The scholarship fund supported students in several states. The veterans’ initiative worked with clinics and community groups across the region. The assistance program for surviving spouses had created a network of volunteers who understood that grief did not follow administrative deadlines.
At one event, a young woman approached me after the program.
Her father had served for twenty-one years. She told me that the scholarship had allowed her to finish nursing school without leaving her mother responsible for additional debt.
“I don’t know who gave the original money,” she said, “but I hope they understood what it became.”
I thought about my grandfather.
“I believe he would understand,” I replied.
That evening, I called my father.
I told him about the young woman and repeated what she had said.
Dad was quiet for several seconds.
“Your grandfather was right about you,” he said.
“He was right about responsibility,” I replied. “I’m still learning the rest.”